Teachers in Texas: Our hearts break for the grief and terror youâre experiencing right now. For yourselves, for your own families, and for the students and school communities you love so deeply. With several of our We Are Teachers community connected to Kerr County and other flood-impacted regions, this sorrow feels personal, immediate, and gutting.
Iâve lived most of my life on the Texas coast and have weathered more than a few stormsâflash floods, hurricanes, and a near miss with a tornado. I was teaching during Hurricane Harvey in 2017, when many of our students and colleagues here in Houston lost homes, cars, and entire neighborhoods. But whatâs unfolding now in Kerr County is heartbreak on a different scale.
We grieve the precious lives lost. We mourn the destruction of homes, schools, and sacred community spaces. And we acknowledge the heavy truth: For many, the hardest parts of this journey are still ahead.
If youâre a teacher picking up the pieces right now, I know you might not have the space to feel proud of your strength or resilience. You may feel exhausted, angry, afraid, or just numb. (If so, you might want to go ahead and bookmark this to come back to when youâre ready.) But when that moment does come, let me offer you my gratitude, and maybe leave you with a few words of encouragement for this school year and beyond.
This school year, âBe flexibleâ will take on new meaning.
Teachers are already champions of adaptability. But when your school is underwater, your classroom is gone, and youâre suddenly teaching out of a borrowed gymnasium or church hallâwith no access to technology, books, or even basic suppliesâflexibility reaches a whole new level.
Hold your plans loosely. When you reunite with your studentsâwhether in person or virtuallyâthey may need space to cry, to ask questions, or just to be. Let that be enough for the day.
So will creativity.
You may not feel like youâre on your A game this year. Lesson plans may feel patched together. You may not reach every benchmark or cover every unit. Thatâs OK.
Rather than judge yourself by the usual standards, consider this: Youâre crafting educational experiences from whatâs left. Youâre showing up, thinking on your feet, and modeling problem-solving in the face of disaster. Thatâs not failureâthatâs remarkable creativity and care.
Itâs OK to not be OK.
Teaching in a community ravaged by a natural disasterâwhile living through the same trauma yourselfâis beyond difficult. If youâre struggling, that doesnât mean youâre failing. It means youâre human.
Please give yourself the same compassion you offer your students. And if youâre in crisis, here are 35 free counseling resources for teachers that may help. Many of your students will also be navigating loss, fear, or instabilityâknow that you donât have to do the heavy emotional lifting alone. Mental health professionals canâand shouldâstep in.
Itâs also OKâwhen youâre readyâto laugh.
A few weeks after Hurricane Harvey, our staff was back in the building, even though students hadnât yet returned. Rain started to fall hard on the roof, and you could feel the panic rise in the room. Then, our normally reserved math teacher shouted, âTOO SOON, MOTHER NATURE!â
We all burst out laughing. And in that moment, something inside us loosened.
Laughter doesnât erase grief. But it reminds us that grief doesnât get the last word. Kids still need joy even in the midst of pain. It helps us reclaim a little piece of power from a situation that feels entirely outside our control.
Your students will remember your hope.
You donât have to become your studentsâ therapist or fix whatâs broken in their world. You donât need to force ânormalâ into a space where everything is far from it.
What they will remember is how you showed up. That you created moments of peace. That you smiled when they entered the room, even if your heart was heavy. That you reminded themâthrough your actions more than your wordsâthat the world still held kindness, and that healing was possible.
Life wonât feel normal for a whileânot for you, not for your students. But your presence, your patience, your gritâthey matter more than you know.
So keep going, one breath and one day at a time.
Youâre doing more than teachingâyouâre helping rebuild lives. And maybe, just maybe, one day your students will face a challenge of their own and think, I can do this. Iâve seen what resilience looks like.
Because they saw it in you.
