Real-Life Tips and Stories for Mentors and New Teachers
Being a teaching mentor is an incredible chance to make a difference. You can make a new educator’s transition into a multifaceted and truly effective professional better and easier. And you help a whole class of children (besides your own!) have a successful year.
Mentoring is not always easy. What works for one teacher might not work for another. Well-intended criticism can easily sound a lot like negative criticism. But there are ways to get better at mentoring, and if you’re a new teacher, there are things you can do to ask for the help you need.
Deb Bowles, a teacher mentor who works for the Great Books Foundation, remembers working with Elsa, a fifth-grade teacher in New York. Elsa had a large class and was struggling to engage all of her students in discussion.
“She was so critical of herself. I just kept telling her that it’s a process and she would get there and so would her students,” said Bowles, who mentors around the Shared Inquiry™ method of learning.
“It’s simple and yet challenging. Shared Inquiry means managing and guiding the thinking of a community of students. Absolutely, it takes practice,” Bowles added. That’s true for almost everything we do as teachers. Having a mentor who can be another set of eyes and serve as a sounding board (or a shoulder to cry on) can profoundly impact the teaching experience.
If you’re a new teacher, you may find yourself assigned a mentor. If you’re a more experienced teacher, you may be that mentor. Or perhaps you’re starting an unofficial mentoring relationship with a teacher you admire or want to take under your wing. Either way, here are eight ways to become a truly great mentor as well as ways that new teachers can make the most of the opportunities they have.
- Build the relationship first.
Kimberly Long had been an ELA teacher at Daniel Wright Junior High in Lincolnshire, Illinois, for seven years, but she didn’t see herself as a mentor. “Don’t you have to be a wise master teacher first?” joked Long. But she soon realized that when you work with new teachers, you need to be open to mentoring. “New teachers need a comfort level before they can ask for help.”It was the sense of camaraderie Long developed that created mentoring relationships. “It can be nerve-wracking to receive feedback,” says Long. “It’s important there’s a relationship before someone is open to come to you.”Building a relationship doesn’t mean dinner invitations or spending weekends planning lessons. It’s as simple as inviting a new teacher into your room to meet other teachers. Says Long, “It’s making that person feel he or she is a valued part of the team.”
- Pick one goal at a time.
Teaching is complex work. As Lee Shulman famously wrote: “The only time a physician could possibly encounter a situation of comparable complexity (to classroom teaching) would be in the emergency room of a hospital during or after a natural disaster.” There will always be skills to work on and improve. Pick one juicy goal at a time, one that has instructional consequences, recommends Randi Stanulis, professor of teacher education at Michigan State University. Classroom management is always going to be first. Next might be improving your writers workshop, facilitating strong classroom discussion or establishing math centers—instructional goals that provide opportunity for you both to learn together.
- Be there as often as you can.
Even with all the other mentor duties—showing new teachers the ropes, helping them meet deadlines, being a sounding board—observing instruction makes a huge difference, says Stanulis. It’s hard to help fix what you can’t see. Try to give your newbies as many chances as possible to observe other teachers at work. Observing and debriefing lessons provides models of instruction and strengthens reflection. Plus, it evens the playing field.
- Give bite-size feedback.
Helping new teachers grow into the best teachers they can be, of course, means giving feedback. But your feedback shouldn’t be a sea of red ink. It’s easy to make the mistake of listing everything you would change about a teacher’s lesson, says Mike Wolfkiel, another teacher mentor with the Great Books Foundation. Instead, give plenty of positive feedback first, then limit yourself to one or two pieces of constructive feedback that in the end will have the greatest impact on students.
- Ask the big questions.
As a new teacher, it’s so easy to get overwhelmed by all the details. Danielle Sullivan, former special education teacher and founder of Extraordinary Teachers, found the informal mentorship of her two co-teachers to be life changing. In particular, Sullivan’s mentors helped her eliminate negative habits, like focusing too much on the little, insignificant things that her students did rather than keeping her eye on the big picture. They accomplished this by continually asking: What do you see for your students two years from now? And how is what you’re doing today getting them there? Questions like these help teachers stay focused on what’s most important.
- Listen, listen, listen.
As they’re learning to teach, it’s important to provide mentees with time to process what they’re going through. Often, says Stanulis, mentors find it difficult to not give advice and just listen. But it’s important to let new teachers come to their own realizations and conclusions. That’s all part of helping them find their voice as teachers.
- Track progress.
Change happens over time, so new teachers often can’t see how much they’ve grown—they truly can’t see the forest for the trees. You can be that mirror. Remind them to give themselves credit. Help your mentees see how they’re better at teaching than they were last month or last semester or last year.
- Show your weaknesses.
You’ve been there. We’ve all been there. Tell your mentees about the time you were so tired you wore two different shoes to school. Tell them about the grading that piled up or the lesson that bombed. Be real. When a lesson that Wolfkiel models doesn’t go as planned, it’s an opportunity. It puts the mentee teacher at ease and gives that teacher a lot to work with in terms of reflection.